Role playing is more fun with age
Alyssa Carroll
Issue date: 3/18/09 Section: Focus
As a kid, role-playing sort of sucked. No one really enjoyed being minosaur number three or munchkin 24. However, as adults, role-playing opens up endless possibilities for fun and creativity in the bedroom, as well as a chance to explore your partner's true fantasies.
"Role playing can be really sexy if you're comfortable and care about who you're doing it with," said Nicole Myers, a 6th-semester economics major. "It's kinda fun to explore different types of character fantasies with the one person you care about."
Just talking to your partner about your sexual fantasy of the sexy librarian, Jedi knight or secret agent can be enough to get your panties in a bunch - acting it out can be an over-the-top sexual experience that allows partners to explore their sexuality without deviating from loyalty.
Talk to your partners about what kinds of characters or roles they have envisioned sexualizing, or what sort of scenarios interest them. Maybe they think being tied up by pillaging pirates sounds fun, or maybe the idea of being handcuffed by an escaped prisoner may bring them to peak.
Be open to different ideas, and try to keep an open mind and not laugh, even if your partner wants you to dress as a hobbit or unicorn.
Both genders can partake in this activity, so make sure to find some middle ground where you both are turned on and comfortable.
"I think when the girl does it, it's definitely sexy - like if she dresses up as a naughty nurse, and has to nurse the bee sting on my penis back to health," said Albie Secondi, a 6th-semester political science major.
After a few Halloweens, most people have a few costumes tucked away. Most of these costumes are fairly expensive, and finding a sexy way to recycle them can be cost-effective and a lot of fun. French maids, princesses, firemen, cowboys and more are classically sexy, but try to stay away from your fat suit, Jason mask or grim reaper cape - unless you talk to your partner first.
Some costumes may require little to no money at all. Look back in your closet to your old varsity jersey or private school uniform. Though you may no longer be a varsity cheerleader in high school, your partner will still be interested in your pom-poms and pigtails. Grab a scarf and tie your partner to a bed as a mysterious burglar.
"I don't have a secret closet of like gorilla masks and school girl outfits, but I'm definitely not against it," said Dan Kneser a 10th-semester painting major.
"I don't know if I would definitely be into it for like role-playings sake, but if the girl I was with was into it then I imagine the sex would be better because she would be more enthusiastic," added Kneser.
"Role playing can be really sexy if you're comfortable and care about who you're doing it with," said Nicole Myers, a 6th-semester economics major. "It's kinda fun to explore different types of character fantasies with the one person you care about."
Just talking to your partner about your sexual fantasy of the sexy librarian, Jedi knight or secret agent can be enough to get your panties in a bunch - acting it out can be an over-the-top sexual experience that allows partners to explore their sexuality without deviating from loyalty.
Talk to your partners about what kinds of characters or roles they have envisioned sexualizing, or what sort of scenarios interest them. Maybe they think being tied up by pillaging pirates sounds fun, or maybe the idea of being handcuffed by an escaped prisoner may bring them to peak.
Be open to different ideas, and try to keep an open mind and not laugh, even if your partner wants you to dress as a hobbit or unicorn.
Both genders can partake in this activity, so make sure to find some middle ground where you both are turned on and comfortable.
"I think when the girl does it, it's definitely sexy - like if she dresses up as a naughty nurse, and has to nurse the bee sting on my penis back to health," said Albie Secondi, a 6th-semester political science major.
After a few Halloweens, most people have a few costumes tucked away. Most of these costumes are fairly expensive, and finding a sexy way to recycle them can be cost-effective and a lot of fun. French maids, princesses, firemen, cowboys and more are classically sexy, but try to stay away from your fat suit, Jason mask or grim reaper cape - unless you talk to your partner first.
Some costumes may require little to no money at all. Look back in your closet to your old varsity jersey or private school uniform. Though you may no longer be a varsity cheerleader in high school, your partner will still be interested in your pom-poms and pigtails. Grab a scarf and tie your partner to a bed as a mysterious burglar.
"I don't have a secret closet of like gorilla masks and school girl outfits, but I'm definitely not against it," said Dan Kneser a 10th-semester painting major.
"I don't know if I would definitely be into it for like role-playings sake, but if the girl I was with was into it then I imagine the sex would be better because she would be more enthusiastic," added Kneser.
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